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Allowing for your Partners CSA Payments

By: Elizabeth Grace - Updated: 29 Jan 2015 | comments*Discuss
Allowing For Your Partners Csa Payments

Marrying someone with children means that you are accepting the idea that you and your new spouse will be partners in parenting, though you may have never had a child of your own. All parents need to put the needs of their children at the top of their priorities, so good stepparents must be supportive and understanding when some of the household money is earmarked for a regular child maintenance payment, often arranged by the CSA.

What is the CSA?

The Child Support Agency (CSA), a part of the Child Maintenance and Enforcement Commission, is in place to help parents make reasonable arrangements for child maintenance payments so that both residential and non-residential parents share financial responsibility for the upbringing of their children, as well as to force delinquent parents to make their required child support payments. The CSA utilises many avenues to assure that parents have the money that they need to provide for the needs of their children.

Determining Child Maintenance Responsibility

A number of factors must be taken into account when determining an appropriate payment plan for ex partners who share a child or children, including number of children that the couple shares, amount of time the kids spend with each parent, number of other children that the non-residential parent has, the non-residential parent’s net weekly income level, and whether or not either natural parent are receiving any benefits. Adjustments may be made from time to time if either parent’s circumstances change.

Being Supportive of Your Partner’s Responsibilities

Children need the financial support of their parents, so people who choose spouses who have young children can expect that for many years, a portion of their partner’s income will have to be used to provide for the needs of the children. While it can be hard to make ends meet when some of the family’s income is set aside to help run another household, it cannot be avoided and should be looked upon as a fair and reasonable responsibility that simply must be shouldered.

While there may be unresolved issues between the children’s parents, the kids are at no fault and should not be punished for the problems that exist between the adults in their families. All children have the same need for safe housing, nutritious food, appropriate clothing, and a decent education, whether or not their parents are together. Many parents experience a great deal of stress over balancing their current household responsibilities and those to their children who live away from them, and the support of a caring and understanding partner can be invaluable in making the situation less nerve-racking.

Keeping the Children out of Child Support Discussions

No matter how intense emotions get between exes over child maintenance payments or other issues, children should never be made to feel that they are being put in the middle. Sometimes, the children’s stepparents can act as buffers, shielding the kids from their parents’ negotiations while providing loving support to their partner so that they are able to do the right thing without feeling extra pressure at home about money worries or conflicting priorities. Parents need to know that their current partners understand and support not only their financial responsibility to their existing children, but their desire to maintain close, loving relationships with the kids, as well.

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@Wayne - Aplogies but this is a UK-based website and we are not party to U.S. laws, so unfortunately I am unable to advise.
BeingAStepParent - 30-Jan-15 @ 12:02 PM
Is there a state assistant program to help me take care of my stepson .his ffather received Ssi benefits and the child can't receive benefits off his dad.I receive 100disability can the state help me.please call me at 205 8737040
wayne - 29-Jan-15 @ 6:37 AM
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