Forming a Bond with your Step Daughter

The father/daughter bond is an important one for girls, but many girls today are raised in single parent households, typically by their mums. When a girl doesn’t get to have a warm, loving relationship with her dad as she is growing up, she misses out on the opportunity to learn about all of the gifts that men have to offer. By opening his heart to his wife’s daughter, a stepfather can provide his step daughter with a strong male role model, one that she can refer to when she is old enough to decide for herself what she is looking for in a mate.

The Importance of a Father/Daughter Bond

Anyone who has ever gotten misty-eyed as they watched a bride dance with her father at her wedding reception understands how precious the bond can be between a dad and a daughter. Fathers play important roles in the development of their daughters, helping them to develop good self esteem by encouraging their efforts and providing them with a standard by which they will someday judge the men in their lives.

Being a good dad doesn’t require that a man has an impressive job or a lot of money; good dads are the ones who spend time, listen, and offer encouragement and sound words of advice when their daughters come to them for help. Great dads make themselves available in the little everyday ways, showing their daughters that good men can be strong and gentle, all at the same time.

Understanding Girls

Many daughters look up to their fathers when they are very young, but as the years progress, some grow distant because their dads don’t understand how to interact with girls, thinking that they are much different from boys. In reality, though, daughters and sons need much the same things from their dads – love, consistency, and the feeling that they are valued and appreciated. There is no need for a dad to pull away from his daughter just because she is no longer a little girl; girls and even women benefit greatly when they have a dad who is both physically and emotionally available to them.

Introducing Step-Daughters to your Hobbies

When a dad is at a loss, looking for activities that he can share with his daughter, he may want to consider introducing her to some of his hobbies. Whether he likes playing golf or fixing up old cars, most girls would be delighted to know that their dads wanted to spend time with them and include them in the things that they enjoy. While many daughters do prefer traditionally female pastimes, most would also be willing to learn about the things that their fathers think are fun, as well.

Encouraging a Step-Daughter’s Achievement

All children benefit from knowing that their mums and dads are supporting their growth and development, but for girls, there is a special importance to the encouragement that they get from their fathers. For most women, the first man they loved was their dad and by providing girls with love and support, fathers can show their daughters that they have the potential to be anything that they want – to dream big and have the courage to try and make their dreams come true.

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